| Location | Manchester |
| Age | 10 months |
| Cause of Death | Cot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 26/01/2007 |
| Date of Death | 06/12/2007 |
| Visitors | 23,096 since 16/01/2008 |
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Jamie became a BIG BROTHER on the 14th July 2009! Francesca "Frankie" was born at 10.24am weighing
7lb 13oz. She looks just like Jamie when she smiles well I think so!
Wish you were here Jamie to help with nappies especially the smelly ones Jessica isnt too keen!
Love you son xxxxxxx
Jamie Statham West our gorgeous boy!!
Born 10.14am on the 26th January 2007 weighing 8lbs 1oz his eyes were blue for a long time but when
he passed away on the 6th December 2007 at just 10 Months old is eyes were brown.
Jamie lives in Winton, Manchester with me, his Daddy Gary and his beautiful big sister Jessica who
is 5 ears old.
We have three fish but Jamie loved to look at the cat which lived over the road from our house. He
didn’t like it coming near him he just liked to look out for him in. In the morning when we were
all ready we used to go in Jamies room and look for the cat. I’m sure he was beginning to say the
word cat! Jessica and I still go in Jamies room and look for the cat now and tell Jamie when the cat
is there.
Our perfect family came crashing down on the morning or 6th December 2007. Gary woke me up, saying.
Pamela I have felt Jamie and he is cold but he has the blankets on him. I jumped out of bed, is he
ok? I said. I put my hand on his back to feel for movement but nothing, I picked him up and knew at
that instant our baby had gone. The screaming, must of woke Jessica, Gary was on the phone to the
ambulance, I’m cradling Jamie, screaming, crying but told Jessica not to worry, go downstairs and
watch the TV. Gary tried to resuscitate Jamie with the help from the lady on the phone. The
ambulance arrived, they ran upstairs and whisked Jamie away, and I followed, barefoot and
bewildered. I knew he was gone yet there was still hope, wasnt there? but it wasn’t to be. We
don’t know the cause of death we have to wait for an inquest. I found comfort being with Jamie at
the chapel of rest and the funeral was as beautiful as it could be but I still feel like it hasn’t
happened. I still think I am going to go in his room and find him lying there.
Jamie was the most gorgeous beautiful boy, when he smiled his eyes lit up. When he laughed you
laughed. He was so happy; he loved his feet and wanted to stand up all the time. He was sitting up
at 6 months, crawling at 7 and pulling himself up on the furniture around 8-9 months. My daughter
walked at 10 months and I reckon Jamie would have walked around the same time. He loved his food, no
jar food was good enough, he loved proper cooking. I was preparing meals and freezing them all the
time. He loved his fruit, his raisins and of course Wotsits and Milky Bar Buttons.
We would always sing Row Row Row your boat to Jamie he loved it. Jessica would sing you are my
sunshine my only sunshine to him when I tried to get him to sleep. We played a recording of Jessica
singing this at Jamies funeral it was beautiful. Jamie loved painting, sticking and anything messy.
He loved Bath time, especially when Jessica joined in. They used to make so much mess but it was
lovely to see. I would say Jamie loved his musical toys the best. He loved banging his cymbals, his
tambourine and waving his maracas. He also loved to play on Jessicas keyboard. How I wish I could
hear that now. He loved playing chase, holding onto my hands whilst we chased Jessica in and out of
the living room.
Jamie will always be apart of us, we will never ever forget him. In the short time he was here he
brought so much joy to us all. Everybody commented on how beautiful he was and how placid he was. I
feel like a part of me has gone with him, I refuse to let people forget him; I need people to
remember the joy he brought to their lives. He brought so much to mine and I will love him for that
forever and ever.
Gone are the days we used to share
But in our hearts your always there!
Torn - by your heartbroken Mummy
I’ve woken up this morning
How, I just don’t know
My head hurt so much last night
And I wasn’t scared to go
Because I know you’re waiting for me
For a cuddle, it’s been so long
And although I know I’m needed here
It’s with you Im sure I belong
You’re on your own how can that be so
It’s just unfair it’s cruel, I can’t let you go
How can I carry on without you here?
I just want to feel my Jamie near
Jessica is great so is your daddy too
They miss you heaps just like I do
I don’t know what will happen now
I just need to be with you, I just don’t know how
It’s selfish to think of coming to you
Wrong someone said it would be
And that I wouldn’t be with you
In Limbo forever id be
I love your daddy he is the one
I love your sister she is my sun
I love you too you are my star
I just wish that heaven wasn’t so far
My head is a mess; I don’t know what to think
One minute I want to die, my life on the brink
But Jessica and Gary I need them too
But then I feel guilty because so do you
I long to see Jessica live her life
To experience the world her dreams she’ll achieve
To leave school, get a job and fall in love
To have fun, have children, her I also can’t leave
Can you see why I’m torn, what should I do?
Please talk to me Jamie, I need you too
Tell me it’s ok your at my side
And forever you’ll remain until I’ve died
Love mummy
For the first time in months, whilst no one is around
I’ve listened to your songs, as normally I don’t play the sound
I felt I needed to listen; now we know what doctors know
But although the news brings some comfort, the pain will never go
We heard the experts confirm, you were as healthy as can be
We were praised on our parenting, which is hard to hear for me
The police told their recollection of a happy loving home
My tears flowed so freely, and again I was not alone
I sit here now in silence, only water can I hear
Sitting here with my thoughts and longing you, to be near
It feels so final now, now the truth has been told
I know it’s not a dream and you, I will never again hold
I still can’t believe it’s happened
That it’s happened to me
I can’t believe that someone loved so much
Can be taken from a happy family
Natural causes Jamie, is all they could say
Unexplained and Healthy in every single way
Nothing we could have done, no one could have known
I’d give my life up son, if I could just bring you home!
I know I could not have stopped it, I know that now
But the guilt will be with me forever, but I will go on somehow
I felt you Jamie today I know you keep me strong
But why did he have to take you, from where you rightly belong?
Just because it’s over, and the inquest has gone by
Don’t think for one minute I will forget you, or let your memory die
This is just the beginning son; your death won’t be in vain
Have fun with other little angel’s son, until I can see you once again!
Jamie Statham West - Perfect in Every Way
I would also like to take this opportunity to say a HUGE THANK YOU for all the support, the tributes
the candles, the text messages the phone calls and emails I really appreciate it. Jamies passing is
something we will never get over but we know who we can depend on and Im so proud to have you all
our life. Jamie has brought us closer together and Im sure he would want it no other way - Love to
you all love from Pamela, Gary Jessica and Angel Jamie. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
a candle lit with love ♥♥♥
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thinking of you today and every day ;;;
love Alison
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dear mummy daddy and sister of Jamie
i just wanted to say your touching story will stay in my heart and memory, and therefore so will your son.it was so hard to read, and so touching. i dont know you, but i am a mother of 3 young children and could never begin to imagine your devastation at the loss of such a wonderful boy. he lives on in you all, and forever will. i am as sorry he was taken to be an angel, it is not fair.
i hope you are beginning to find a path towards some sort of inner peace, and i wish you well on your journey.
just so sorry.
♥♥ WITH LOVE ♥♥
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~~ The Angels ~~
May angels rest beside your door
May you hear their voices sing
May you feel their loving care for you
May you hear their peace bells ring
May angels always care for you
And not let you trip and fall
May they bear you up on angels wings
May they keep you standing tall
May they whisper wisdom in your ear
May they touch you when you need
May they remove you from each trace of fear
May they keep you from feeling greed
May they fill you with their presence
May they show you love untold
May they always stand beside you
And make you ever bold
May they teach you what you want to know
About life here and here-after
May they fill you always with their love
And give you the gift of laughter
~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~
~~ Angel In My Pocket ~~
I am a tiny angel
I'm smaller than your thumb
I live in peoples pockets
That's where I have my fun
I don't suppose you've seen me
I'm too tiny to detect
Though i'm with you all the time
I doubt we've ever met
Before I was an angel...
I was a fairy in a flower
God himself hand picked me
And gave me angel power
Now god has many angels
That he trains in angel pools
We become his eyes and ears and hands
We become his special tools
And because god is so busy
With way too much to do
He said that my assignment
Is to keep close watch on you
When he tucked me in your pocket
He blessed you with angel care
Then told me to never leave you
And I vowed always to be there
~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~
~~ Guardian Angels ~~
When angels sense you need them
and angels always do.....
they come unseen from everywhere
to help and comfort you
they hover close beside you
till all your cares are gone
till they can see you're ready
once again to carry on
Then some of them may fly away
and take their gentle touch
to other hearts that need
the love of angels very much
but one at least stays with you
as your constant friend and guide
for guardian angels never leave
they're always at your side
~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~ ~xXx~
Lots Of Love Always ~~ Elaine...x♥x
hello gorgeous x x
hello gorgeous boy,my my jamie i recieved a card on friday of your mummy with francesca pics on and you,i just cant get over how much your little sister looks like her gorgeous big brother (you x x)i told your mummy to.wow aint your mummy a very lucky lady having 3 gorgeous children,i know your looking over them jamie and what a great job your doing darling your a beautiful gorgeous boy too be so proud of,i hope your wrapped up warm gorgeous boy as its getting very cold at night now,well im gona let you get some rest gorgeous dont forget keep up your good work of looking after mummy daddy beautiful jessica and gorgeous francesca godbless darling night night x x x
A butterfly is floating by
i thought i knew it's face
it landed on my shoulder and spread
it's wings of lace. I looked
and saw it smiling.
as it winked and flew away
im sure i heard it whisper
we;ll meet again some day
love as always Alison ♥
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What a windy day and night!
Cuddle up to all of us and keep snuggly warm.
Love you
Auntie Dawn
PS see you in my dreams...thanks for coming x
Hello Son
Went into Manchester today to meet with lots of lovely mummy's and daddy's who have angel babies like me. It was lovely to meet them but when we released all the lovely balloons it just hit me why we were all there! It was very difficult and it hit home how cruel life can be. Jessica was crying and that is the first time since your funeral that i have seen her cry for you Jamie even though i know she misses you terribly. Please watch over her Jamie and keep her safe here with me. And of course Francesca!
I have been wanting to watch your montage for ages and I finally watched it this evening I cried so much but it has been wanting to come out for a while. i feel very sad now having watched it but strangely close to you too. Come and visit me in my dreams please if you can xx
I must get some sleep now because my eyes are sore. Na night darling love and miss you heaps xxxxx
Mummy xxxxxxxxxxxx
Tears in Heaven
Would you know my name
if I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven
Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please
Beyond the door
There's a peace I'm sure
And I know
There'll be no more
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven
I must be strong and carry on
'Cos I know I don't belong
Here in heaven.
Eric Clapton
LOVE AS ALWAYS ALISON ♥
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Hello gorgeous. Well I go woken up this morning by a lovely picture of Frankie smiling! She's beautiful and has those chubby cheeks just like you!!!!
I blew you a kiss this morning when I passed your garden. I hope you caught it, although if your co-ordination skills are anything like your Auntie Terri's then you may well not have done!
Had a lovely weekend last weekend with Jessica, ice skating, pony trecking and the dogs. She does make me laugh. She did say when we were at the dogs "lets hope Jamie helps us" when I did the whole crossing the fingers thing wrong and crossed fingers on both hands! Well she definitely did do well with her little brothers help didnt she, £15 she went home with. Lucky girl!
Well night night Jamie and as always, love hugs and big sloppy kisses! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx BIG SQUEEZE!!!!!
Auntie terri.
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